All excellent advice, thank you! The writing at work is pretty much out for me, since I now am the boss of the library, so somehow active work is expected of me all the time I'm there. Go figure. But coffee + writing session on weekends, I used to love that. I'll try to make that a regular weekend thing. Of course, my regular café that I've been going to for twenty years just closed... so tragic, but this is Madrid. There *has* to be another café for me.

And the not beating oneself up for not writing is very important too. I hope it will be easier for me when writing daily has actually become a habit for me.